by Anne Marie Kirsten Photo credits: Stephen Mease, tortoon Have you ever mulled something over for so long that when you finally made a decision, it had nothing to do with the pros or cons, but was instead based off of the result of an arbitrary coin toss? I’d been quietly agonizing over something for approximately one year and three months, flipping imaginary coins, when the answer finally appeared in my inbox last week. Let’s be clear: that email had nothing to do with the dilemma in question. But I took it as a divine sign that pointed to “yes.” Ok, here comes the quandary, and brace yourself, First World…